.............WhAt If.........

Every person has beyond any doubt  experienced Goosebumps, all thanks to just two words "WHAT IF?" It makes shivers run down our spine, our mouths dry and our heart-beats to escalate to a zenith! The expectation of tomorrow, rather the fear of what awaits us the next moment, grips us too badly to the torments of What If?. It follows us almost everywhere, like in a Job Interview, in a university admission, EXAM results, even if we propose someone, in anticipating the outcome of a Match, or a debate or any activity in which we have an interest.

Even William Shakespeare in his poem Hamlet's Soliloquy demonstrates the feeling of What If?; "To be, or not to be--that is the question"..............

It is but natural to all human beings however we must not develop a habit of entering into such state of mind because it is not a manifestation of a strong character but of weak and dull person.
It exhibits  the absence of self confidence and mistrust in our prayers. We must possess confidence as to what we have done is right and what will happen will also be good for us! Our insight and thinking must be right about what is to come in future.

 We gain confidence by achieving successes no matter how small; it helps in uplifting our spirits and boosting our confidence. Its absurd to completely waste our 'today' for what is to come in  'future'. It a bit difficult but not impossible to stand high at such moments and profess that no matter what happens, you will come out of it successfully-a gladiatorial spirit!

We must also have confidence in our prayers otherwise it just makes the idea of a Deity or Lord empty and senseless. 

Only those people who have mastered their nerves and  possess confidence in their abilities have had their names etched in the books of Great People. Failure is a part and parcel of life, the best part about it is that its just a bad time and time always passes irrespective of it being good or bad. One must just learn from it and move on, Thats It! Its quite true because today when I write this I vaguely remember my failures but all those moments in which I enjoyed and achieved something and it really makes me laugh how much hard was it then for me to pass a single second!! And now its nothing except a vague and blur memory.